Relief of Imperfection

Life Doesn't Have to be Perfect to be Wonderful!

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New Book and a New Blog

NEW BOOK: A devo a day keeps the overwhelm at bay! To help you experience the relief of imperfection on a daily basis, I've written a devotional book to follow-up my previous book, The Relief of Imperfection.

This freedom-producing book of daily encouragement for women who strive too hard to make it just right is titled It's a Wonderful (Imperfect) Life. Check it out on Amazon at http://tinyurl.com/DevoBook.

Three minutes a day will free you from the joy-stealing temptation to try to make yourself, your family, your spirituality and your dreams perfect. After each devo, I've written a "Making It Personal" life coaching tip, question or exercise.

NEW BLOG: The "Relief of Imperfection" blog has been transferred to my new blog, so click on over to http://www.joancwebb.com.

Remember, life doesn't have to be perfect to be wonderful! Enjoy.

A View From Up Here-Guest Blog

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I (Joan) love stories from women who find relief from trying-too-hard-to-make-it-all-just-right. I met today's guest blogger, Sara Nelson, at the AZ American Christian Writers Conference where I recently spoke. We became friends on Facebook and yesterday I read this "note' on her FB page. Sara agreed to share her story on my "relief of imperfection" blog. Read, enjoy, and smile!

Guest Blog: The View from Up Here

by Sara Nelson

They say hindsight is 20-20, but for me, hindsight is microscopic, capable of turning the most miniscule mole hill into a massive mountain! This microscopic view is perfectionism. I used to think of perfectionism as a strength. I might have argued that its the driving force to success. It pushes me to excel, doesn’t it? No! Wrong! Instead, I’ve discovered perfectionism pushes me down, not up!

This morning I dropped in on my student teaching classroom for a little while, just in time to work with students in Math, and I started to feel all choked up and sentimental about the time I’ve spent with them. Just think! A few weeks ago I was in tears over Math and tearing my hair out over Science! And in February I really didn’t know if I was going to make it through to the end? How far away and long ago that seems!

While it may be easy to look back on student teaching NOW and think, maybe it wasn’t really so bad, yet, AT THE TIME, it really was an uphill struggle. It really was one of the most difficult challenges I’ve ever faced! So, from the perspective of today, having climbed the mountain, what have I learned? What is my view from up here?

Years ago, we stayed at an armed forces recreation resort in Germany. It was off-season, and the buses that normally took tourists to the top of the mountain weren’t running, so a group of us decided to hike to the top. For most of the way up the mountain, it was foggy, drizzly, and cold. But, eventually we walked out of the fog. The top of the mountain was bathed in full sun with a magnificent blue sky overhead. Yet it wasn’t the sunshine at the top that inspired me nearly as much as the view looking back. A snowy-white blanket of clouds covered the valley. Not a trace of anything else could be seen.

The greatest lesson I’ve learned from student teaching is about maintaining perspective. Everyone—EVERYONE—tells me I shouldn’t be so hard on myself, but I shake my head at them in disbelief. I point to my flaws and faults and failures. It’s as plain as day, people! Look at how far I’ve missed the mark! Seeing things any other way has always been next to impossible for me. But, now I understand. I get it!

Let’s face it. No matter what, there will ALWAYS be something I should have done that I didn’t do. There will ALWAYS be something I should have done better. There will ALWAYS be something I should not have said or done, or something I should have said or done in a different way.

Perfectionism is like hiking up that mountain all those years ago in the fog and drizzling rain. Perfectionism sees the worst. It focuses on the gray and dismal. It is cold and unforgiving. But, what a difference is the view from the top of the mountain! Like the fog that covered the valley, I’ve discovered my mistakes and blunders fade. They do! Whether it’s by grace or simply time moving on, after awhile, the mistake that seemed so hideous last week is a less than a speck today. What peace I’ve found in leaving perfectionism behind! This is by far the greatest lesson I’ve learned from student teaching. I didn’t know I’d be saying this, but the thing that seemed most difficult to me has become one of my greatest victories and greatest joys.

Good enough bloggin'

2009-04-17T15:31:00.000-07:00

What keeps you from doing blog entries, Joan? I wrote out-of-seemingly-nowhere this morning while journaling.

Logical question really, since it's been 5 weeks and 3 days since I've blogged--on either blog: http://www.reliefofimperfection.blogspot.com or http://joancwebb.blogspot.com. Yikes! What is that about??

Well, probably it has to do with several things. But. . . in my journal earlier today, I spontaneously wrote: Hmmm. I'm afraid it will be 'lame'--not good enough. Well, that's a kick, huh? Good enough is okay, JC.

That is a hoot, since I'm the one who writes, speaks, coaches and lives to encourage others--and myself--to embrace the "relief of imperfection", thus reducing procrastination. . . and so on and so on. You know how it is. Well, do you?

Anyway here goes. Even before I get all this social networking, blogging, internet marketing, online communication figured out (which I am working on and one of the other reasons I've not blogged!) I'll go ahead and blog--imperfectly.

First, I'll start with a little follow-up on my last blog (on March 10, 2009!). I had a great time at the Christian Book Expo in Dallas on March 20-22, even though the attendance was lower than expected. It was incredibly well-done. Professional. Great workshops. Absolutely superb nightly worship services. Good interaction with all that were there. Wonderful Christian Book Awards dinner. Here's a few pix that help me remember the good times:
I autographed copies of my book, The Relief of Imperfection: For Women Who Try Too Hard to Make It Just Right, and 99% of the women who stopped by said, "Oh, that's me. Honestly." And then they shared some of their stories with me. I loved it! One woman I met wore a sweater that "perfectly" matched the book cover. We had our photo taken together. As she walked away, I said, "Watch my blog. Your picture will probably show up on it." And then it took me weeks to upload her lovely photo. :-( I wished I remembered her name.

Chris Simms from Regal Books managed the booth and it was great to get to know him a little. Saw pix of his lovely family, heard stories about life on the road introducing and selling "books" and learned from his wise suggestions.

Loved spending time with author Vicki Kuyper. She's a friend and colleague who is full of fun and authenticity--and a really good writer! And she happens to be from Arizona, too. I attended her workshop where she shared about her philosophy that "God is a Slippery Fish." Vicki has written over 40 books. Her latest two are from New Hope Publishers: Breaking the Surface and Wonderlust.

I also attended a workshop by Shaunti and Jeff Feldhahn, authors of the incredibly popular books, For Men Only and For Women Only. Fun to listen to their stories and fascinating research about the differences between males and females.

Well, that wasn't so bad for my first "good enough" blog in 5 1/2 weeks! If I were chatting with a life coaching client I'd say, "Congrats! Now keep going. You can do it!"

Christian Book Expo in Dallas, March 20-22

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Today's "Relief" Blessing and Today's "Relief" Quote

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Today’s “Relief” Blessing:

I’m asking God for one thing, only one thing: To live with him in his house my whole life long. I’ll contemplate his beauty; I’ll study at his feet. That’s the only quiet, secure place in a noisy world, The perfect getaway, far from the buzz of traffic. Psalm 27: 4-5 The Message

Today's Relief Quote:
“What do you have in common with Billy Graham, Osama bin Laden, Stevie Wonder, and Sandra Day O-Conner? I can think of only one thing—each of you will someday bow your head and bend your knee with billions of others in the presence of the Lord.”Anne Spangler, Immanuel: Praying the Names of God through the Christmas Season (based on Romans 14:11)

It's a Wonderful (Imperfect) Life

2009-02-14T16:32:00.001-08:00

Exciting News! Today Regal Books emailed me this flyer for my new devotional book, It's a Wonderful (Imperfect) Life. The books hits bookstore shelves April 1. Just in time for you to give it as a gift on Mother's Day. Share the news: Life doesn't have to be perfect to be wonderful! Make my shoulders relax! Scan the flyer and see what you think.

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God Breathes Life, Beauty and Grace into His Creation

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Photo of Rim Country above Payson, Arizona. Taken by Joan C. Webb 2007

Good Reason to Exhale!

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Here’s a good reason for me to take a deep breath, exhale and release my re-occurring “trying too hard to make it all just right” approach to life, work and ministry: Give all your worries to him, because he cares about you. 1 Peter 5:7 NCV

Thanks for caring so much and pursuing me, Lord, even when I ruminate, run, and isolate. Tonight I'm praying like author Ken Gire (Reflections on the Word) did when he wrote, "My hope, O God, my only hope, is that you are more persistent in your seeking than I am in my hiding." You are, indeed. Now I'm going back to sleep.

Women’s Retreat January 23-25, 2009

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I had a wonderful time at Chapel Rock Retreat Center with the lovely women of Estrella Mountain Church of Goodyear, AZ. We worked through the 5 steps of The Intentional Woman process together. Lots of fun, “ahas”, some tears, many smiles, prayers, music, laughter and stories. Truly this is a group of intentional women with hearts for God. Thanks to Ann Knister, Estrella Mountain Women’s Ministry Director and her team for such a great weekend. And thanks to Beth’s Aunt Leslie for connecting us!
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Exciting News for The Intentional Woman

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We’re happy to announce that Women’s Ministries—Unlimited! (which includes 12,000 Assemblies of God churches) has chosen the workbook, The Intentional Woman as their recommended Bible Study for 2009. They’ve adopted “The Intentional Woman” as their 2009 theme. Read the following article of their interview with Carol Travilla and me. It is on page 20 of their AG magalog. Check it out on their website: http://www.womensministries.ag.org.

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The Power of Intentional Leadership Seminar - October 18, 2008

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Here are pictures from The Power of Intentional Leadership Seminar at

Christ Community - El Conquistador in Tucson.

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"Relief Retreat" - October 4, 2008

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Here are some pictures from the Relief Retreat at First Baptist Church in San Manuel, AZ

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Upcoming Writers Conference - January 30-31, 2009

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If you want to take your writing dream out of hiding, this conference is for YOU.
Interact with editors, published writers, an agent, beginning writers, dreamers and others just like you.
Learn about the unspoken rules of publishing, simple tips to enhance your writing skills, and how to turn your writing into publishable submissions.

For more information, contact Moutain Park Community Church at

http://www.mountainpark.org/

480-759-6200

Upcoming Exhale Seminar - February 20-21, 2009

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EXHALE
was designed for you by the Women’s Ministry of
Mountain Park Community Church
2408 E. Pecos Road
Phoenix, AZ 85048
(480) 759-6200
http://www.mountainpark.org/

"If you have ever thought of praying even a part of this prayer, perhaps it is time for you to breathe in and gently EXHALE. Joan knows how hard it is for determined and caring women to let go of unrealistic expectations and step into the relief of imperfection. And yet this is exactly what God wants for you. “The Relief of Imperfection” will encourage you to believe the truth about God, others, yourself and reality, thus releasing you to relax and celebrate your life."

Upcoming Intentional Woman Seminar - March 28, 2009

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Please join me and Kristina Bailey on March 28, 2009 at

Mountain View Lutheran Church
11002 S 48th St.
Phoenix, AZ 85044
480-893-2579
http://www.mvlutheran.org/
Confused about what’s next?
Too many jobs to do and people
to please?
Want to avoid burnout?
Desire a deeper, more joyful connection
with God?
If you answered YES to any of these questions,
this interactive seminar is for YOU.
The multi-media five-step process offers
valuable tools that guide you in clarifying:
-Who you are now
-Where you have been
-How knowing who you are and where you have been can help you experience the power of your story and become intentional about your personal and spiritual growth.

Upsy Daisy Brunch - May 3, 2008

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Here are some pictures from the

Upsy Daisy Brunch

at First Baptist Church in Tempe on May 3, 2008

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Intentional Leadership Seminar at Saddleback Church -- April 14, 2008

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Intentional Leadership Seminar at Saddleback Church -- April 14, 2008

IW Presenter Tina Henningson and I (Joan) had a great day sharing the 5 Step Intentional Leadership Process (adapted from the workbook, The Intentional Woman) with the Women's Leadership team at Saddleback Church in California.

visit www.intentionalwoman.org for more information about The Intentional Woman

More Photos from Saddleback Church Intentional Leadership Day April 14, 2008

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Do you see your picture here?

Woman to Woman - April 11-12, 2008

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Here I am with the planning team at the annual conference for the Southern Baptist Convention

Great Days at the AZ American Christian Writers Conference

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Reg and Eleonore Forder and Joan C. Webb at ACW Arizona Conference
Nov. 1, 2008

American Christian Writers (ACW), founded by Reg and Eleonore Forder, is in the "ministry business" of encouraging and training both beginning and advanced writers. On Oct. 31 and Nov. 1 the traveling ACW Conference had the annual AZ weekend and I felt privileged to teach and consult with many talents writers in varying stages of their writing and publishing careers.

Here's a few photos of the exciting and busy two days.
I had lunch with three talented and intentional writers, Lynn, Cheryl, and Kim.

Literary agent, Steve Laube, taught the "non-fiction writing" workshops on Friday.

Relief of Imperfection Oops!

2008-09-19T15:38:00.001-07:00

What a riot!

I just got an email from a writer-friend who told me that there is a typo on the flyer I just sent to about 150 people! I had seen it before and meant to delete it, but I didn't! Well, it just goes to prove that I'm covered with "imperfection." And since I've made progress in my "trying-too-hard-to-make-it-all-just-right" journey,

I'm laughing here--instead of crying! :-)

Someone helped me with the flyer initially and I'm so grateful. I would probably never have figured out how to make the book cover background! Still they used that word that means "celebrated and famous" and I was overwhelmed by that. But I forgot to adjust it.

Oh, well, again.

I actually felt the knots in my neck relax a little. Isn't that ironic?!

Have a wonderful, imperfect weekend. With lots of relief.

Relief of Imperfection Opportunity-Arizona

2008-09-19T15:38:00.000-07:00

It's Friday! Hope you have a great weekend.

I wanted to let all my Arizona friends know about this upcoming Relief of Imperfection opportunity coming on Saturday, October 4 in San Manuel, AZ southeast of Chandler. It's a One-Day Retreat sponsored by Tri-Community Churches. It's FREE--and you're invited. It's at the First Baptist Church San Manuel. Call Jan at 520-490-1998 for info and to register.

Enjoy meaningful alone time, fun interactive chats, poignant story-telling, and biblical insights, as well as give-aways throughout the relief-producing day on October 4 at First Baptist Church San Manuel, AZ at the corner of First Avenue and Nickols in San Manuel. For info and registration about this free retreat, call Jan at 520-490-1998.

The retreat is a reader's digest version of my new book, The Relief of Imperfection. Trying-too-hard-to-make-it-all-just-right (yes, it’s a type of perfectionism!) has many faces, includes all personality styles, and cuts across cultural lines. It has to do with unreasonable expectations--how we belittle ourselves and others for having human (we translate that word as weak) thoughts and emotions, inconsistent faith or less-than-excellent plans, accomplishments, families, bodies or dreams. Yet we who sometimes get worn-out "trying too hard” can learn the exciting adventure of learning to relax and realize that everything doesn't need to be so difficult and that some things can actually be easy, fun and smile-able. What a relief!

I've love to see you there.

Where's Joan Been?

2008-09-13T20:14:00.000-07:00

It's been a while since I posted a blog. So, where have I been? Writing a new book and welcoming a new granddaughter.

The new book, a devotional titled It's a Wonderful (Imperfect) Life: Daily Encouragement for Women Who Strive Too Hard to Make It Just Right is due to hit your local bookstore shelves around Mother's Day 2009. It is great companion book to my recently released book, The Relief of Imperfection.

The best part about this past summer? Calissa Jolie Rasmussen, our seventh grandchild and number four granddaughter, was born to our daughter Lynnette and her husband Adam. She's a precious addition to their family of four sisters.

Here's a few pictures of Calissa soon after she arrived on July 28, 2008.

Nine year-old big sister, Annika, holds and admires her new baby sister.
Alissa's entire family including Daddy Adam, Mommy Lynnette, 9 year-old sister Annika, five year-old Kirsten, 4 year-old Lesia and Baby Calissa.
Papa and Grandma Joan with 6 hour-old Calissa Jolie.

Thank you, God.

More from Joan later.

Relief blessings to you today!

Branson Retreat

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What a great group of women from Tulsa! We met together in Branson, MO in April 2008 to experience "The Intentional Woman Finds Relief" in an intimate setting. Then Women's Ministry Director, Christy Thornton, and several others read and "played" through The Relief of Imperfection and the "Relief Guides" during the summer months.

Comments following:

"A read-again book”
"This book was liberating”
" It helped me to accept my own failures and mistakes, and to realize that others do too”
“I have such high expectations of myself. This book helped me to go easier on myself.”
The Lord ministered to me through "The Relief of Imperfect Churches and Culture section." I was reminded once again about the power and priority of forgiveness. When I choose to forgive through Christ’s strength, I am truly liberated. Thank you for that reminder!

March Book Winners!

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Flowers in the Arizona Desert!

A few days ago my husband Richard snapped this photo while we took a Sunday afternoon drive into the mountains. The flowers in the desert this year are lovely. When they are brilliant like this, it always reminds me of a child pressing hard to color her page with all the bright crayons in the box. I think God loves to colorthe landscape!

I'm pleased to announce the winners of the MARCH book drawing. Today I'm mailing them a copy of The Relief of Imperfection. The winners are Kathy Bjorklund of West St. Paul, Minnesota and Linda Carlblom of Chandler, Arizona.

Kathy entered the "Relief" Give-away by sending me an email from the CONTACT US page on www.reliefofimperfection.com.

Linda entered the "Relief" Give-way by texting JOAN to 23907.

How about you? Want to win an autographed copy of my recently-released book, The Relief of Imperfection: For Women Who Try Too Hard to Make It Just Right? YES? Okay, then send me an email via www.reliefofimperfection.com OR post a comment to this blog message OR text JOAN to 23907. Then you'll automatically be entered in the April FREE BOOK CONTEST.

Special congratulations to sisters Annika, Kirsten, and Lesia Rasmussen for winning the "Relief" Basket Give-Away during my recent book signing at Amazing Grace Christian Bookstore in Tempe, Arizona. Fellow-authors Marsha Crockett (www.marshacrockett.com) and Kitty Chappell (www.kittychappell.com) signed their new releases that day, also. Marsha is the author of Break Through from NavPress and Kitty is the author of Good Mews from Thomas Nelson.

FUN MEMORIES: Atlanta Women's Retreat

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Hi!

I have such great memories of my time at Camp Pinnacle (in the near the Georgian/North Carolina border--lovely place!) with the "intentional women" from Gainesville, Georgia. I think of each of you and smile. At our Saturday night dinner in the beautiful old home, I snapped some photos and I want to share them with you all.

I know some of the women didn't come to the dinner, so you're not in these photos. Bummer. We missed you. But you were enjoying dinner somewhere else.

I hope you are all enjoying working through The Intentional Woman workbook with your groups. I'd love to hear from you. You can post a comment on this blog or send me an email via the CONTACT US page on http://www.reliefofimperfection.com/

Relief blessings,

Joan

Online Book Review of The Relief of Imperfection

2008-03-04T20:15:00.000-08:00

Thank you to Deena Peterson, great online book reviewer for her recent glowing review of The Relief of Imperfection. Visit her at http://deenasbooks.blogspot.com/ to view her A Peek at My Bookshelf site. Read her "fun" book review of The Relief of Imperfection. Here it is:

I don't know about you, but I enjoy reading books that help me see things more clearly, give me direction, and rely heavily on Scripture to guide me. I realize the Bible is more than sufficient, but sometimes reading an author's thoughts puts things in perspective. . .

I've spent so many years of my life, performing and obeying for approval. Working myself to death for a morsel of self-acceptance, delivered by someone else to me. Striving to put forth the image of the woman who has it all together.

Honestly, if I did have it all together, I'd set it down somewhere and forget where it was! Once that soaked in to my soul, the pretense was gone (for the most part) and real life settled in.

I still struggle with perfection, which was why I was so grateful to receive a copy of "The Relief of Imperfection" by Joan C. Webb. Joan uses real life anecdotes and Scripture to reveal the joy of our imperfection is His perfection revealed in us.

Her book is divided into multiple sections for personal or small group study, beginning with "Preparing for Relief...What's Wrong with Perfection"? Yes, dear reader friends...we have to prepare ourselves to be imperfect.

When you begin to read, you realize just how ingrained it is in us to put out the "June Cleaver" mom, the "Donna Reed" wife, and the "Martha Stewart" homemaker. But Joan's wisdom and insight slowly unshackles us from those heavy yokes and sets us free to be. . .

Well, us! And it feels weird at first, to just be yourself in Jesus...but you get used to it!

Joan's message is serious and intense, but her writing style is laced with humor. Just take a look at some chapter titles: "I Was Perfect Once, But I Didn't Like It Much"; "When Playing God Is No Longer My Best Role".

Now, I highly recommend that you read this book with your Bible, a journal and a highlighter nearby. Of course, you have total and complete freedom to read this book how it suits you...isn't that GREAT!!

So, I'm giving "The Relief of Imperfection" six out of five bookmarks, with a tiny mirror as a charm...it's time we got to know ourselves through Jesus' eyes, and not our own...or the eyes of others.

Thanks, Joan! You're perfectly imperfect!! LOL!! Love ya!

Happy Reading!

Deena

P.S. Joan has offered TWO copies of her book as giveaways. So visit my website, A Peek at my Bookshelf, at http://www.deenasbooks.blogspot.com/ and read the review for The Relief of Imperfection and I'll pick a winner on March 15th!!

Valentine's Day 2008

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Happy Valentine's Day 2008!

It's Love Day! And my birthday. It's a BIG one for me, but I'm not telling which one. I had a great day today. It wasn't "perfect" because my husband was out of town, but it was wonderful. Sounds like The Relief of Imperfection! (Remember--Life doesn't have to be perfect to be wonderful!)

Hey, I've been celebrating my birthday for weeks, ever since the "Relief" Book Launch on January 19 when my daughter Lynnette, son-in-law Adam, son Rich, and daughter-in-law Anne surprised me with a special memory book filled with notes, letters and well wishes from over 50 friends, colleagues, and family members sharing funny stories and birthday greetings. It warms my heart every time I read these messages. I'm a grateful woman!

Here's some photos of that celebration night.

Above photo: My daughter-in-law Anne Webb giving me the Birthday Memory Book!

The 2nd photo includes (right to left) our son Rich, then daughter Lynnette Rasmussen, then my husband Richard, me (Joan) in the middle, and my friend Patty Parker (we've been friends since grade school and she was in our wedding) and Patty's husband Frank Fara. Patty and Frank are in the music business (check out http://www.comstockrecords.com/).

3rd Photo: The Relief of Imperfection book table with my friend of twenty years Sue Theobald (on the left) who came all the way from Minnesota to Arizona to celebrate with us. On the right is Lisa Gifford (and her husband Bruce.) Lisa has one of the 35 stories of "relief" in The Relief of Imperfection. She and I are working together on some "Relief of Imperfection" projects. Kneeling down in front of the table with her back turned to the camera is Lynn Bragelman, the winner of the "Relief" basket give away.

Thank you to all of you who came out to The Relief of Imperfection Book Launch Celebration. And thank you to all of you who wrote personal Happy Birthday greetings for my Memory Book. You are part of the joy of my birthday this year. I'm smiling here!

He's In Love With Me!

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Several years ago while enjoying a few days away on retreat, I listened to some background music while I ate breakfast. To the peaceful strumming of a guitar, the soloist sang the following words: "God is in love with his people. God is in love with me."

Tears filled my eyes. "What a relief-producing idea!" I thought. Immediately my longing heart felt bathed with hope. Then a disturbing question threatened my contentment: "But is this true?" When I returned to my room, I searched my Bible for an affirmation. "The Lord appeared. . . saying, 'I have loved you with an everlasting love,'" I read.

"It's true," I whispered. God is in love with me. And God is in love with you, too. Maybe you'd like to write these words on a sticky note and put it on your computer monitor, car visor, or bathroom mirror to remind you daily of God's constantly active love for you. For time immemorial He has loved you and me.

Winner of January Free Book Drawing: Karla Patrick

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Congrats to Karla Patrick of Cambridge, Minnesota! Karla won the January Free Book Drawing for an autographed copy of The Relief of Imperfection.

When notified that she had won the January drawing, Karla said, "Wonderful!! Thanks so much. I look forward to reading it. I really need it this week! :-)

In the photo above, Karla and I smile at the camera when I visited Cambridge, MN. Enjoy reading through The Relief of Imperfection, Karla. May you find "glimpses of relief" in these pages. Thanks for signing up for this January drawing.

Maybe you will be the winner of the February drawing. Visit http://www.reliefofimperfection.com/ and send me an email request to be entered in the February drawing by clicking on the words CONTACT US on the left hand side of the HOME page. Then fill out the form and hit send and you'll be entered. I'd love to hear from you.

Relief of Imperfection Women's Retreat

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Joy! I Don't Have to Fix It All--Including You!

and

Numb and Number--When Trying Too Hard Dulls Your Soul

These were two of the topics included in The Relief of Imperfection Women's Retreat at St. Andrew the Apostle Catholic Faith Community Church in Chandler, Arizona on January 26, 2008. We had interactive sessions on "The Relief of Imperfect Relationships and Families," "The Relief of Imperfect Emotions, Minds and Bodies" and "The Relief of Imperfect Faith, Prayer, and Spirituality."

I so enjoyed sharing with these women last Saturday. These are women with varied backgrounds and talents, but all with hearts for God and their families. Lisa Gifford, a professional woman with four young children who has a personal story in The Relief of Imperfection, joined me in sharing/presenting at the one day retreat. Lisa snapped pictures of some of the women. Is your picture here?

"The Relief of Imperfection" Book Basket Winner!

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CONGRATULATIONS TO LYNN BRAGELMAN!

On January 19, 2008 at the Book Launch Celebration for Joan C. Webb's new book, The Relief of Imperfection, Lynn Bragelman was the lucky winner of a "Relief" basket.

The gift basket included a copy of The Relief of Imperfection, a lovely journal, pen, yummy chocolate, fragrant candle, popcorn, and gourmet hot chocolate.

Relax and enjoy, Lynn!

Relief of Imperfection Book Launch

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The Relief of Imperfection Book Launch on Saturday, January 19 was a "Relief-filled" CELEBRATION! Lots of friends, family, colleagues! Surprises! Hugs! Congratulations! Balloons! Food! Gratitude! Love! Sharing! Surprise birthday greetings!

Here's a photo of my husband Richard and me, Joan C. Webb, at the Relief of Imperfection Book Launch. More later.

"Imperfectionistic Blunders!"

2008-01-08T21:42:00.000-08:00

Today I read my friend, Author Mary Pierce's BLOG at http://www.laughlady.com/. I always LOL on Tuesdays because that's the day Mary (When Did My Life Become a Game of Twister?) writes her Blah! Blah! Blah! BLOG. This morning her entry was titled "The 1% Solution."

"Last January, I set three major goals for 2007. . ." writes Mary. "I missed each goal by–you guessed it–100%. HA! . . . [So] I’m changing my approach; I call it The 1% Solution. Here’s how it works:
Today, I’ll exercise 1% more than I did yesterday. Yesterday my only exercise was beating around the bush and jumping to conclusions. Today I’ll take a five-minute walk. . . . Then I’ll throw myself a little party. . . Woo-hoo!"

And I decided to respond to her blog, even though I've never done it before. I typed, "Fun stuff and reasonable idea—that Laugh Lady’s 1% plan! I just typed in a witty reply to your blog, but made a mistake and lost it all. Bummer. Oh, well, sounds like a little 'Relief of Imperfeciton' for me today." Comment by joancwebb — January 8, 2008 @ 11:02 pm

THEN I SAW IT! YIKES! So I wrote another entry to the blog. "Oops! I re-read the comments I just posted and I realize I’m having trouble spelling the title of my new book. (Hey, give me a break–typing comments on blogs is NEW to me!) Anyway, the word 'Imperfection' is not spelled 'Imperfeciton.' The title of the book is–The Relief of Imperfection: For Women Who Try Too Hard to Make It Just Right. And well, the truth is, I’ve made several 'imperfectionistic' blunders today and I’m still standing and smiling.

"Just for the record, in addition to the two I've mentioned above, I forgot to get my husband’s boarding pass online as I promised I would. Now he’ll probably have to sit at the “back of the bus” on his flight from Phoenix to Little Rock! Double bummer. It reminds of the Laugh Lady’s 1%. Mary writes that she can’t do everything [just right], so she is going to make a 1% shift in the right direction.

And I did, too. I said, “I’m really sorry, Richard.” And since I’m not down on myself tonight, it is reason enough to join Mary, the Laugh Lady, in a "Woo-Hoo!"

The 1% Solution works! And by the way, so does The Relief of Imperfection! Try it! I think you might like it! Go to http://www.amazon.com/ and type The Relief of Imperfection in the "search." Also, go to http://www.reliefofimperfection.com/ and write me an email under the CONTACT US menu. I'll enter your email into my January FREE BOOK DRAWING. Maybe you'll be a winner like Linda Christ. (See the recent posting.)

Relief blessings to you this January 2008!

Happy New Year!

2008-01-01T20:06:00.000-08:00

2008 is here! Wish I could sit and chat with you and listen to your plans and dreams for the coming year. (For me, listening to another's honest thoughts and aspirations is like gazing at an inspiring landscape such as Niagara Falls. My husband just snapped this photo when he visited there recently.)

A few weeks ago when I heard the following true story, I thought of you (you I haven't met yet and all you I already know--and love.) I hope you take these words into 2008 with you, to inspire and encourage you.

"I have the results of your stress test," said Dr. Page.* "You have major blockage in several arteries and need immediate intervention."

"Whoa. That's not the kind of news I wanted to hear," replied Michael*, a middle-aged family man with a challenging career. "Can you fix my heart?"

"Sure," answered Dr. Page. "Talk to my nurse and let's schedule your surgery for as soon as possible." After the doctor explained about the surgery and follow-up care, Michael drove home to share the news with his wife and family.

Later the doctor visited Michael in the hospital room where he was recuperating. "Are my arteries open now and the blood pumping through again?" Michael asked the doctor.

"Open and pumping the blood, all you'll ever need," assured Dr. Page.

Michael's wife, Sarah*, leaned toward the doctor and asked, "But what will his quality of life be like now?"

"I fixed his heart, but the quality of his life is up to him," remarked the doctor.

This story really touches my heart (and I don't have clogged arteries!) Once again it confirms to me that I am personally responsible for my own decisions, beliefs, actions, and growth. It's an awesome and do-able privilege, since I'm the only one I can change. (I know I can't change other people, and often I can't change my imperfect circumstances, either. But I can change my thinking and behavior--and make choices that may alter my situation.)

That's why I thought of you. You, too, have the privilege of making personal decisions and following through with determined action. It takes courage, commitment and faith. And you have all three. Grab them and go. :-) What decision calls for your courageous action? What choice seems impossible to make? What next step is God urging you to take? Perhaps 2008 is your year for change.

Remember this good news: God has fixed your spiritual heart, the quality of your life is up to you. In 2008, may you find rest, joy, gratitude and peace as you continue to make wise and healthy choices to ensure the quality of your life.

Trading exhausting expectations for imperfect joy,

Joan

* Names in this story have been changed.]

Winner of Book Announced

2007-12-26T19:42:00.000-08:00

Christmas is a time for giving and receiving.

We have a winner of the promised Christmas Day drawing! I'm happy to announce that Linda Christ has won an autographed free copy of The Relief of Imperfection: For Women Who Try Too Hard to Make It Just Right. Congratulations, Linda.

On December 14, 2007 I sent out an email blast to 100 people announcing the upcoming release of my new book, The Relief of Imperfection. In that email blast, I invited folks to sign up for a free book by going to http://www.reliefofimperfection.com/ and sending me an email. Several did just that.

On Christmas Day, I chose a winner from the entries. Linda Christ of Chandler, Arizona won a copy of "Relief." I hope you enjoy reading your new book, Linda.

Watch for more opportunities to win your own free copy of The Relief of Imperfection. Visit the blog often at http://www.reliefofimperfection.blogspot.com/ or the website at http://www.reliefofimperfection.com/. Or perhaps another email blast will show up in your inbox. Check for "Win a Free Book" opportunities. Enter as many times as you'd like.

Linda Christ, Winner of Free Book

2007-12-26T18:30:00.000-08:00

Congratulations, Linda! Enjoy reading your new book.

Here's a picture of me, Joan Webb, with Linda Christ, the winner of the Christmas Day drawing for a free copy of The Relief of Imperfection.

Maybe you'll be the next winner. Watch for new opportunities to win a free copy. Visit http://www.reliefofimperfection.com/ or http://www.reliefofimperfection.blogspot.com/ for news about upcoming events and contests.

HAPPY NEW YEAR!

Merry Christmas Relief!

2007-12-21T23:49:00.000-08:00

Merry Christmas from our family to yours!

Author Joan Webb (right top) introduces you to Papa Richard sitting in the middle holding skirming Lesia and Luke. Son Rich and Annie are in front of Joan. Mommy Annie holding one-year old Sam (hey look at the camera, Kid!)

Annika (dressed as Hannah Montana) sits in front of Uncle Rich. On the left: Adam and our daughter Lynnette with Kirsten in front. Max peeks over Aunt Lynnette's shoulder. (Lynnette and Adam have the 3 girls. Rich and Anne have the three boys! How fun!)

Great Grandpa Pressler snapped this picture right before we opened all the gifts on Dec. 16. We celebrated Christmas early.

We all say, "Happy Birthday, Jesus. You're the best gift of all! Ever. We're glad you came as a baby long ago and then grew up to live, love, and die for us."

God gave us that first Christmas gift: Jesus. Grandma Joan writes in her new book, The Relief of Imperfection, "God sent His flawless Son, Jesus, as His exact representation into my imperfect surroundings in order to reconnect me to Himself, the omnipotent Creator and heavenly Father. Such a costly solution to the gap problem between God and me! God might have gotten very pushy about it, yet He treats you and me--His Human creations--with such incredible respect that instead He allows us to decide whether we want to accept His reconciliation proposal. . . . The key to knowing God personally is to simply stop refusing Him."

Give yourself a special gift this Christmas. Talk to God. Make a spiritual connection that you'll never regret. MERRY CHRISTMAS!

The Relief of Imperfection book is here!

2007-12-21T23:40:00.000-08:00

The book arrived. It's here. To purchase The Relief of Imperfection go to www.amazon.com and click on books and type in The Relief of Imperfection.

Buy it from www.amazon.com and you'll have it in your hands in just a couple days. In time to read during the holidays.

Book Launch Celebration

January 19 (Saturday) at 7:00 pm at San Palacio Clubhouse in Chandler, AZ. Call 480-279-9922 for more information.

NEW BOOK COMING JANUARY 2008!

2007-11-17T19:23:00.000-08:00

Hi! I'm Joan and I'm excited about my new book release. The Relief of Imperfection: For Women Who Try Too Hard to Make It Just Right hits bookstore shelves on January 2, 2008.

So go to http://www.reliefofimperfection.com/ starter page for more information about this new book to be released by Regal Books (Gospel Light.) Here's a look at the new book cover.

I'll post more later.

The Relief of Imperfection Book Flyer

2007-11-17T13:51:00.000-08:00

A few days ago I received this Relief of Imperfection (ROI) flyer from my publishing house, Regal Books. I'm going to post it here. Hope you can read it.

Website Imperfection = Frustration!

2007-11-16T13:59:00.000-08:00

Talk about imperfection! For the last six days I've been trying to create a new joancwebb.com website. I already have a website out in cyberspace (http://www.joancwebb.com/) but it's outdated and I wanted an updated one before The Relief of Imperfection releases January 2.

Yet it has been nothing but six mornings and nights of frustration--one delay after another. So, I just gave up on the website design (well, for the moment) and decided to check out blogger.com where my son Rich assured me, "It is easy, Mom!"

Well, guess what? He's right. I was able to upload the Relief of Imperfection book cover and flyer within seconds and I've been trying to post them both into my new website for days. Yes, I said days. What's up with that?

Well, finally I have a little "relief." And I'm smiling here. More later. Joan C. Webb signing off.